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25 Apr, 2007

So what about the rest of my media-lite week?

Posted by andrea tomkins in: Misc. life

Good question.

I did a lot of things that I normally don’t have the time to do. I made a dinner the night before. Mark and I sat on the couch and talked. We played Battleship. (!) I got all sorts of work done. I sorted junk recipes out of my recipe file. I got my hair coloured. I wrote a letter. I reorganized by cookbook shelf. I brought a pair of my favourite slippers down to the shoemaker to have repaired. I ran errands. I picked up some very sweet vintage children’s books at the SallyAnn. I took long walks. I went out (“MUMMY HAS A PLAYDATE!”) with a few very fun fellow blogging chix. I worked on a few lines of Kubla Khan.

It was wonderful.

My head felt clearer than it ever had before. And I felt happier, and less sluggish. I was suddenly living at a different pace. And more importantly, I had more time.

By Friday the weather had improved. It became even easier to spend unrushed hours outdoors.

Even though I cut the media out of my life for such a short time it is still interesting to look back and see what kind of things I can change and how I can benefit.

Other than bits of playoff hockey I didn’t watch any television or films. I didn’t read any books. Where I off track: I read some trashy magazines at the hair salon (what else was I to do while I sat under the fan?) and almost subconsciously slipped into Facebook. It’s sad, really. I would have done okay but I received multiple “friend” requests during that week. It would be rude to keep those people waiting, right? So I’d dash in to accept, and dash out again. But by Friday I was scanning the headlines and checking out new groups. Aaaargh. By Saturday I was reading the paper. I couldn’t avoid it, it’s my favourite part of the weekend!

Other observations:

- TV is easy to cut out if you know your favourite show is being recorded for later and also removes the temptation to channel hop the whole evening away

- going for a walk is a better way of spending time than idly surfing the WWW.

- I missed reading. I like to read before I go to bed, but since I wasn’t reading I ended up going to bed earlier… which isn’t necessarily a bad thing!

- I wasn’t as motivated to clean up the basement as I had previously thought. Only one corner of the basement got tidied, but that also includes the defrosting of an old fridge. We’ve decided that we don’t really need it anyway, which I’m glad about because it buys us more space and will probably result in a lower hydro bill.

- Facebook is opium for the masses and takes significant chucks away from the already-limited amount of time I have in front of the computer. And it’s making me dumb. I’ve adjusted my email settings so all FB-related emails go into one folder. I’m going to try to reserve my FB time until after the girls go to bed. Ha. Wish me luck with that one.

Anyway, I’m rushing now. I have a few writing deadlines to meet this week and I need (a) eat breakfast and (b) get back into work mode.

p.s If you’re interested in reading more about the concept of a media fast, I do recommend this post over at zenhabits.

And here’s another thing I’ve been thinking about. I’ll leave this with you: Beach reading (you know what kind I mean, light, non-literary type of fare) good, bad, or downright harmful to your brain? Discuss.


8 Responses to "So what about the rest of my media-lite week?"

1 | Sharon

April 25th, 2007 at 11:42 am

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NO reading is Harmful if it helps you relax and enjoy…I’ll read just about anything And you should too. I read literary classics down to easy on the brain fluff stuff.

GO FOR IT!

2 | Miss Vicky

April 25th, 2007 at 3:41 pm

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You like candy, right? Think of this as mind candy. Best of all, it’s not even fattening!

I’m a big fan of consumable fiction. I spend most of my cottage visits with my nose in a cheesy mystery. Who needs to think all the time????

3 | Pendullum

April 26th, 2007 at 6:45 am

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Sounds like an absolutely glorious week..
We cut cable drom our lives… now, we only watch movies…
and I fear, I can not take away my love of the New Yorker magazine which I devour every week… No newspapers… and I get me news through the national radio in the mornings as I get my daughter ready for school..

4 | liss76

April 26th, 2007 at 7:00 am

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We’re similar–cut cable back in August 2003, right after “The Big Blackout”. We watch stuff on DVD and listen to a lot of radio. It’s great. I credit it with being one of the big reasons why I read so many books each year.

And, you know what? After the first few weeks without television, I didn’t even miss it!

5 | The Veggie Vixen

April 26th, 2007 at 7:12 am

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I agree — reading anything is good. It keeps your mind focused and sharp. I read my fair share of mind crack (gossip magazines) and fluffy books but I always feel better for it because I used my brain rather than watching mindless tv for a couple of hours.

6 | andrea

April 26th, 2007 at 7:59 am

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I am slowly beginning to think that not all reading is good for you. VV, I have to disagree with you, fluffy books don’t help us use our brains. It’s the same as “mindless tv.” It’s just mindless reading.

Picture this:

You’re trying to start a fire. You have the choice of two materials: hard, aged, dry wood that will crackle and burn for a long time and keep you lovely and warm; or a pile of soggy leaves and plastic wrap. Which do you choose? ;)

Your brain is that fire. You have to feed it. If you want to be a good writer (like I do), or a clever and knowledgeable conversationalist (like I do), shouldn’t you be consuming quality material?

I’m not inferring we should all pick up a copy of War and Peace. Reading shouldn’t be a slog. Or boring. It should be an enjoyable journey. But does it have to be so “lite” ?

7 | The Veggie Vixen

April 26th, 2007 at 10:09 pm

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Hmmm. Good points…but I love my gossip magazines. :-)
I think it’s ok to get lost in a story even if it’s fluff. I read a lot of “information heavy” books b/c I enjoy reading about health and nutrition but sometimes at the end of the day I just want to lose myself in fluff. I think I’m still using my brain b/c I’m imagining what the characters look like and I use the words to creat the scenes in my mind. I think that keeps my mind working. I think (I hope) reading fluff is a bit better than watching endless hours of tv.

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