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24 Nov, 2008

my personal history with chocolate advent calendars

Posted by andrea tomkins in: Misc. life

a.k.a. how I came to be engaged.

The Candy Store is hosting a special contest about sweet memories of the holidays. Winning entries will receive a gift card and have their story posted their website. (I should point out that The Candy Store is a patron of the Fishbowl, but I’m mentioning this only because it’s such a sweet little contest – no pun intended – and I thought you’d like to hear about it, not because I’m obligated to post about it in any way.)

When I learned about the contest it occurred to me that I don’t think I’ve ever shared the story of how Mark proposed to me. It’s related to candy. (Really!)

I always had a chocolate advent calendar when I was growing up and I never quite outgrew the idea. Mark and I had one (this is pre-kid days) and it was always a race to see who would get that day’s chocolate. It was December 16th. I guess we were coming home after work. We stepped in the door at the same moment. The chocolate! I made a dash for it, in fact, I may have even pushed him out of the way to get it. I remember it so clearly… running to the kitchen, finding the number, pushing my finger into the perforation and pulling at the little paper door and …

… the chocolate was gone.

In its place was a shining circle of gold and a sparkling solitaire. I turned to see Mark. His eyes were just as bright, and he was smiling. The next part is a bit of a blur. I do know this … I said yes.

We went to Mekong to celebrate. I remember thinking how blindingly beautiful that diamond was. I loved it, I did, I do.


6 Responses to "my personal history with chocolate advent calendars"

1 | porter

November 24th, 2008 at 9:44 am

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i’ve got tears in my weepy old eyes!!! ohhhh mark, that was such a great way to propose.

on a totally unrelated note…..hey i see you’ve updated your ‘cursed to covet pretty things’ off to check it out….yeahhh!

2 | Chantal

November 24th, 2008 at 10:29 am

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Ah how sweet. What a romantic! My story isn’t so romantic. We went away for the weekend to the Eastern Townships and on our way back I told him it was about time we got married. He agreed. So technically I proposed!

3 | Lynn

November 24th, 2008 at 11:39 am

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That’s such a great story! Your husband is quite the romantic.

4 | Virtually There

November 24th, 2008 at 4:02 pm

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That’s a great one. I love great proposal stories.

5 | This Girl loves to Talk

November 29th, 2008 at 5:18 pm

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I love your blog.. am using lots of your ideas.. I added your advent envelopes from last year to a list of advent ideas I did for my Christmas in July posts

6 | The Candy Lady

November 30th, 2008 at 7:42 pm

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I really think you should submit this story to the Sweet Memories contest. It’s up there with one of the best stories I’ve read so far!

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