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28 Jul, 2017

Camping at Bon Echo, Cliff Top Trail

By andrea tomkins in parenting,travel talk

Everything was soaked on Monday morning, which was not a surprise given the rain storm we had the night before. We had planned to hike the Bon Echo Creek trail but once we got there we realized it was way too muddy and impassable in parts. (Note to self: make sure all family members have hiking boots next time.)

The rest of the day was spent in a pleasant limbo between our campsite and the beach. We went on an outing to Smart’s Marina. It’s is the closest place to get ice if you’re camping at Bon Echo. We also found the wood was better than the stuff we bought from Ontario Parks (in other words, dryer).

Tuesday was a bit more exciting. The hike du jour was Cliff Top Trail, which is on the other side of the lake from the campsites. Last time we were here we paddled over in a rented canoe.

Canoes and kayaks at the bottom of Cliff Top Trail, Bon Echo

This year, we took the Mugwump ferry. The schedules are posted throughout the park. There is a ferry departing almost every day of the week, every twenty minutes. You get the tickets at the Gift Shop (grab some maple chews while you’re there, they are good!) and hang out at the boat launch until it’s ready to go.

Mugwump Ferry, Bon Echo Provincial Park

Something new to us: in an effort to restore the trail and cut down on trail erosion, the Friends of Bon Echo group have a pile of small gravel bits at the boat launch. Visitors can do their part by grabbing a big can of it and bringing it over to the other side. Dump it on one of the marked gravel piles when you arrive at the appointed spot.

Cliff Top Trail rehabilitation program, Bon Echo

It’s just one small thing you can do to save the trail. (Also, stay on the path, don’t litter, and don’t damage anything along the way, of course!)

The ferry is short ride, very smooth, and quite scenic. See the tiny colourful smudges in the photo below? In the water at the bottom of the cliffs? Those are kayaks and canoes. (More on that later!)

View of the cliffs from the ferry, Bon Echo Provincial Park

There were about 20 of us who came over to hike the trail. What I didn’t consider was the bottleneck it would create on the trail when so many people come over at once. Most people were beginner hikers and slow walkers. Here at Casa Fishbowl, we are fast walkers who like to hike in a tranquil setting. In hindsight, it would have been better to disembark and zip ahead of the pack or hang back. It was very busy, but even that didn’t diminish the trail’s beauty and the amazing views at the summit.

(For fun I tried recreating a couple of the same photos we took back in 2011!)

Sarah at the end of Cliff Top Trail

View at the Cliff Top Trail, Bon Echo

I forgot to mention that Cliff Top trail is moderately steep (or maybe you already deduced that with a name like “Cliff Top”). I definitely wouldn’t hike this trail in sandals or flip flops. Running shoes are required here!

Here’s a view of what visitors are in for:

A view of Cliff Top Trail, Bon Echo

Hike to Cliff Top Trail

Bring water too. Even though it’s a relatively short distance, it is hot at the top and you’ll be glad you brought it once the hike is over.

Of course, it’s always a good idea to not rush things too much. Otherwise you’d miss some sights, such as these pretty mushrooms breaking through the leaves:

Mushrooms!

… and of course, that view:

View from the top of Cliff Top Trail, Bon Echo Provincial Park

It was busy at the top and we took a few photos and checked our email. It’s one of the only places at Bon Echo that gets a strong and stable signal. There is no WiFi or cell service at Bon Echo for the most part. There are a couple of places you might be able to find a weak signal, but it was here, at the top of a cliff, that I found myself replying to urgent work emails. I realized that it felt pretty good to be completely offline. I wasn’t obsessively touching my back pocket to make sure I had my iPhone with me. And my days, and those tiny, amazing moments that fill my days, weren’t interrupted by notifications and the need to send out an update on social media. (“Hold on a sec everyone! I have to update my Instagram!”) It was remarkably liberating, and dare I say, luxurious, to keep these moments all to myself. The only people I shared them with were the ones who were closest to me. My time was truly my own.

Speaking of tech, we were hanging around the summit of Cliff Top Trail and a young family had come up behind us. The daughter, who was about three, was perched on a parent’s shoulders and playing a loud game on a mobile phone. On one hand, I generally take a “whatever works for you” perspective regarding parenting decisions. e.g. Kid only wants to wear dinosaur rubber boots to preschool, even during a summer drought? Hey, whatever works! Kid needs to be bribed with goldfish crackers to get in the car seat? Hey, whatever works! Kid demands to watch Paw Patrol at the end of a pretty trail with a gorgeous view? … I am sorry, but I find it tough to drum up enthusiasm for my old “whatever works” stance.

Ok, sure, whatever works, Paw Patrol family! Go ahead and let your kid watch whatever they want, whenever they want. But what’s the cost here? A disconnect with the outside world? An inability to cope with life without technology? Terminal impatience? Attention deficit disorders? What will be the outcome, 20 years from now?

Or maybe I’m a hypocrite because I checked my email at the summit? Sigh.

Our kids were surprised to see the little girl with the phone, and watched with interest as the girl’s young family members started clamouring to watch. That kid is missing out on so much, and let’s be honest with ourselves, a device can be a real crutch for parents. I don’t want to forget that great things can happen when we put the devices away, not just for kids, but for adults as well. It’s about time and place, right?

WELL. This post certainly didn’t end how I expected it to. I’d love to hear your thoughts on kids using tech in the (near) wilderness of camping! Do you, or don’t you? What are your rules, if any?

While I was tapping out yesterday’s Q&A post about camping I got to thinking about camping with kids. It’s been a great experience for our family, especially since we’ve been doing it since our daughters were small. Camping is one of our family traditions. Every year is an adventure and every year we cherish the time we have together.

This year’s trip to Bon Echo was especially meaningful for us. Our eldest is leaving for university in the fall and is starting a new chapter in her life. Will it include a summer trip with us next year? I’m not sure, but I sure hope so!

I wanted to write a bit about how camping can be an important part of child development. It’s not something that immediately comes to mind when planning a camping trip, but it’s something I’ve been thinking a lot about.

Some parents underestimate how much their kids are capable of, and they are capable of A LOT. Young people need to be given opportunities to be responsible. A feeling of achievement, whether it’s a three-year-old building a sandcastle or a 13-year-old starting a campfire, builds self-confidence, and confidence builds resilience, and we need resilient kids.

Of course, it goes without saying that as kids get older they become more helpful, more capable, but youth is not an excuse to avoid helping out, especially while camping, where having all hands on deck can be (a) critical to success and (b) a sanity-saver for harried parents. Something to consider as well: kids like to be assigned age-appropriate camp tasks. Even though many are considered akin to chores, the novelty factor can elevate them a bit.

For example, here are a few things kids can do around a campsite:

  • clear away rocks and sticks before setting up the tent
  • sweep out the tent
  • help set up the tent (my kids loved to clip pieces together, assemble the poles etc. This year they assembled one of the two tents on our site by themselves.)
  • unroll the sleeping bags and make the beds
  • inflate water toys
  • help with dishes
  • set the table
  • unfold/put away camp chairs
  • fetch and carry water
  • fill waterbottles
  • build the fire

Kids are so proud when they complete a task. (Aren’t we all?) A sense of accomplishment and the pride that comes with a job well done is huge, even if the task at hand is seemingly insignificant such as sweeping out a tent with a brush and dustpan. I imagine these small instances of accomplishment something like building blocks. You (and your kids, of course) are building the foundation of a platform, one which will get bigger every day and some day, your kids will stand on it, on their own, and use it to jump into the world.

I’m no parenting expert, I’m just a parent, but I think it’d be helpful if we occasionally asked ourselves: is what I’m doing right now fostering an “I CAN DO THIS” attitude in my kids?

Of course, camping isn’t just about camp chores. Completing a canoe trip, building a moat in the sand, catching a frog, or baiting a hook and catching a fish comes with a feeling of accomplishment too:

teach a child to fish...

Yay! I caught a stick!

Here’s something else: kids can carry their own stuff. This idea extends past the camping season as well. (I’m thinking about school backpacks here!) Everyone always carries his or her own backpack for hiking (or school) with snacks, water bottles, and whatever supplies necessary. (One of my favourite parenting-type exclamations is: MOM IS NOT YOUR SHERPA.) Of course, a backpack for a four-year old looks a little different than one for a teenager, and it might just contain a small water bottle, an apple, and sunscreen, but we did it anyway. Kids are capable!

Of course, sometimes accidents happen. When the kids were younger I asked someone to hold the paddles while Mark and I dragged the canoe out of the water to hoist it on the rack (a series of actions which always tested the bonds of our marriage) when the paddle holder suddenly swung around and clobbered the other kid with the widest part of the paddle. Then there was they time someone accidentally touched the roasting fork while it was still hot. There were tears in both cases, but everyone survived. It’s not failure. It’s part of the learning process.

What is the most important thing about camping with kids? It’s remembering the bring the marshmallows, but it’s also about giving them the opportunity to do things on their own so we can build resilient, confident, happy citizens of the world.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this!

Related: my favorite Ottawa family photographer, Sara McConnell, was at Bon Echo this summer as well and wrote a great post about it on her blog. She’s new to camping and I really enjoyed her perspective (and her photos)!

25 Jul, 2017

Camping questions and answers

By andrea tomkins in travel talk

I write about our camping adventures every year, and every year I have the same problem: how much detail should I provide? On one hand, the details are good to recount for me and my family (i.e. blog as scrapbook) but can be a bit long for casual readers. I will try to find a middle ground, but before I dive in to our Bon Echo trip I thought it might be useful to answer some questions about camping I’ve been asked over the years.

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  • sam: Great article. This is very insightful. Thanks for sharing

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My name is Andrea and I live in Ottawa with my husband Mark and our dog Sunny who is kind of a big deal on Instagram. During the day I work as a freelance writer. I am a longtime Ottawa blogger and I've occupied this little corner of the WWW since 1999. The Fishbowl is my whiteboard, water cooler, and journal, all rolled into one. I'm passionate about healthy living, arts and culture, travel, great gear, good food, and sharing the best of Ottawa. I also love vegetables, photography, gadgets, and great design.

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