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05 Nov, 2018

Ordinary days

By andrea tomkins in Misc. life

Our Sunday began with a couple of hours spent raking leaves and cleaning up the exterior here at Casa Fishbowl. Also, Mark put away the lawn furniture last weekend but had to pull it all out again to get to the Christmas lights, which of course, were at the very back of the shed.

I look at fall cleanup as a multistage process because I find it too overwhelming to deal with in one day or one weekend. Raking is a gradual thing, and I’m not fussy. Slow and steady wins the race here. I emptied some plant containers and Mark put away the garden hose and drained the rain barrel. I broke up the last of the branches from “tornado weekend” and turned the compost.

If it snows now it’s not the end of the world.

At lunch, we went to Mark’s parents, where we had grilled ham and cheese sandwiches. I filled four yard bags with leaves while Mark helped out with a few things around the house. The day turned into a sunny one. We took the dogs for a walk around the Monahan Drain Catchment (which sounds ugly but it’s essentially a man-made pond), where the geese are now congregating in huge numbers.

We didn’t stay long. I had to get a roast in the oven so we said our goodbyes.

On the way home I suggested we take a short walk along one of the trails in the Stony Swamp network. So that’s what we did. Walking in the woods is a different experience when all the leaves are off the trees. Suddenly, there’s a lot more to see there, including mysterious rock cairns, foundations of forgotten buildings, and old apple trees:

Old apple tree

Piper was quite pleased with this turn of events and found lots of delightful sniffs along the way:

A walk in the woods

Her feet were muddy so on the drive home I covered my lap with a blanket we keep in the car for this purpose.

We had a pork roast for dinner, baby potatoes with lots of butter, roasted cauliflower, and a green salad (spinach and arugula this time around. I love arugula!). We opted out of our usual after-dinner walk, and instead, made popcorn and watched Netflix.

Sometimes the ordinary days are the best days, don’t you think?

03 Nov, 2018

Weekend reading: November 3 edition

By andrea tomkins in Weekend reading

30 Oct, 2018

A Halloween question

By andrea tomkins in Misc. life,parenting

Outdoor ornament

There are a lot of conversations about Halloween happening in the Interwebs right now, especially as it pertains to age: how old is too old etc. For the record, I have no problem giving candy to teenagers. I figure if they want to be a kid a little while longer, it’s ok in my books. But how do you feel about adults coming to your door? Like, alone? Without kids?

As much as I enjoy seeing everyone’s costumes, I don’t feel… how should I put this… charitable when I’m dishing out the candy.

One year a woman – very much a grown up – came to our door and held out her bag. (If memory serves, it may have even been a handbag.) We were handing out full-size candy bars that year. She waved down the street vaguely and said, “My kids are over there.” I felt like saying: “lady, go buy your own candy or raid your kid’s stash.” But of course, I didn’t. I dropped the candy in her bag without a word.

Candy isn’t cheap and we get a couple hundred kids to our door every year. I’d rather reserve it for the kids.

I believe Halloween is for everyone but that the trick or treating part should remain the domain of the younger set. Or maybe I’m just a grumpy old Scrooge. I’d love to hear what you think. Should adults be asking for candy at the door?

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The Obligatory Blurb

My name is Andrea and I live in Ottawa with my husband Mark and our dog Sunny who is kind of a big deal on Instagram. During the day I work as a freelance writer. I am a longtime Ottawa blogger and I've occupied this little corner of the WWW since 1999. The Fishbowl is my whiteboard, water cooler, and journal, all rolled into one. I'm passionate about healthy living, arts and culture, travel, great gear, good food, and sharing the best of Ottawa. I also love vegetables, photography, gadgets, and great design.

If you're so inclined, you can read more about me here.

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