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I asked myself that question – a lot – before I signed up for my membership.

The windchill was minus twentysomething this morning. Oh lor’ was it cold outside. It was hard to motivate myself to go to the gym. (I walk!) But I did it.

Maybe it was the weather, but it was just me and one other woman there this morning. We got to talking about how important it is for women to focus on their health, and how hard it is to stay motivated sometimes.

So without futher ado, I thought I’d share what works for me:

– I keep my gym clothing washed and handy at all times. I keep it in a drawer beside my bed, or, er, sometimes on the floor. When I wake up in the morning I roll out of bed and put it on. No searching.

– I eat a light breakfast beforehand, something that includes fibre. It fills me up.

– I save my coffee for when I come back. Coffee, sipped in leisure in front of the computer in the glow of my sun lamp, is a treat. And I look forward to it everytime I walk back home.

– Even when I feel like utter crap, I tell myself that I’m not going to work out. But I go, planning to only spend ten minutes reading a magazine on the recumbent bike.  Ha ha! I’m actually tricking myself, because once I finish on the bike I feel better, more energized, and ready to tackle a few weights. I’m such a sucker. It works every time.

– Looking good. When I started going to the gym I wore old gym shorts and a baggy t-shirt. I might as well have been wearing an old sack. I felt so depressed. So I spent a few dollars (Joe Fresh!) on fitness gear that fit right and flattered my figure. Now, whenever I see myself in the mirror I see progress. It keeps me motivated.

– I try to remember: it doesn’t take much. I usually start with 25 minutes on the elliptical trainer (brisk walking for 8-10 minutes and then uphill jogging/walking in 1:40 intervals for the rest). I do one circuit on the machines. I do 15-20 reps on each machine (depending on the machine) and I only lift an amount that makes me feel muscle fatigue by my last rep. The whole thing lasts about an hour. That’s it!

– Did you know that muscle burns more calories than fat? If you have more muscle you use up more calories when you’re resting. I like that.

– I don’t do this to lose weight, I do this to be healthy. I don’t want to be hung up on that little number on the scale.

– I try to be proud of my accomplishments, no matter how small. If I’m on the bike riding slowly, I tell myself hey, at least I’m here, on the bike. Something is still better than nothing.

– Sweat is good. It means my body is working hard. Some people equate sweat with lost calories. i.e. Every drop of sweat is a drop of fat off your butt/thighs/whatever. Hey, whatever works!

– Bringing music! If I didn’t have my iPod shuffle loaded with my favourite motivational music I wouldn’t work nearly as hard as I do. It really gets me going, AND blocks out everything else. The music you bring should be something that makes you feel good. i.e I wouldn’t exactly call this a feminist anthem of the new millennium, but for some reason the chorus of this song makes me want to raise my arms with a jazzy flourish and leap across the room. This one too. I even sing along! Well, okay, I mouth these as loudly as I can.

And my last motivating factor (and this might sound morbid), is that I do this for my family. They need a happy, healthy mom, and I want to be around for as long as I can. I look at it this way, every hour I spend at the gym might be an extra hour I get to spend with my family. And I think that’s the best reason of all.

[ETA: check out the great fitness tips over at Zen Habits. There’s lots of good stuff there.]

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09 Feb, 2008

Operation Feelin’ Great

By andrea tomkins in Misc. life

operation feeling greatI’ve realized something: if you want to feel great at work, at school, in your marriage etc. –  you have to make a little effort.

If feeling great requires personal effort, how can I increase my odds of having Really Really Great Day?

Maybe all I need to do is try.

So. I have scheduled a GREAT DAY, just like I would schedule a dentist appointment or a lunch with a friend. My Operation Feelin’ Great is scheduled for Valentine’s Day.

My hypothesis is this: if I say I will have a great day and plan it ahead of time, I think I will have a great day.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not an unhappy person. Au contraire, I am quite happy. But I have decided I’m going to put in some extra effort into this one day and see how it goes.

Here’s my plan:

  • I will do two major things on the 13th  – tidy the house, and go to bed early.
  • When I wake up on the 14th I am going to remind myself that I’m going to have a great day, and try to remind myself throughout the day.
  • I will start off the day with deep breaths and wakeup/yoga type stretches.
  • I will go to the gym.
  • I will buy a newspaper.
  • I will have a long hot shower and not scrimp on expensive product. (WTH am I saving it for anyway?)
  • I will spend some time in front of my sun lamp.
  • I will “do up” … meaning, I will wear that fancy underwear that’s stuck at the back of my drawer, I will wear makeup, I will dress in my best “I am a hawt momma” clothing, AND take the time to straight iron my hair
  • I will repeat “I am a hawt momma” (to myself) the whole day
  • I will have a healthy breakfast and a great cup of coffee, and enjoy it while I’m reading the paper
  • I will act how I want to feel. I will smile at everyone and no one.
  • I will hug for longer. I will smother my family with time and affection.
  • I will eat a healthy lunch.
  • I will eat Valentine’s chocolate and not feel guilty (Mark and I are not exchanging gifts, but we are having sushi for dinner and our favourite chocolates for dessert…)
  • I will do one good deed (TBD!)
  • I will do something creative (TBD!)
  • I will write one nice email
  • I will crank up the stereo and dance

My keywords here are Mindful, and Energy, and Zing, and Me. 

To be honest, I think I will be utterly exhausted by the end of this. But, if I am able to have a great day by scheduling one in ahead of time, I might be able to have one every day. (What do you think? Very Happiness Project, huh? ;) )

Anyone care to join me? If so, I’d love to hear your own personal plan of attack for Operation Feelin’ Great. What makes you feel great? And more importantly, how can you we sustain that feeling?

08 Feb, 2008

Now THIS is an unexpected find!

By andrea tomkins in - Found objects

Day nine: An unexpected find

… found on top of a newspaper box just down the street.

I am still chuckling.

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  • Jeanie Maennling: I spent many wonderful days visiting my cousins and Uncle Herb and aunt Eleanor at the Farm in the 1950's. Mycousin Skippy (Sharon) and I got into l
  • alex: For a classic Canadian treat for valentine day , try a BeaverTail (a fried dough pastry) there its yummy
  • Juliet Luiz: I was at this park today and saw the foundation and historical sign which got me curious and let me to your blog post! Great information:) too bad t
  • Rowyn Tape: Hello, I was sitting at Easter dinner with my grandmother and she was telling me this story. She is Herbert Lytles daughter who eventually bought the
  • Bernie: I freeze ball sizes of bread dough for beavertails each winter season.Easy to thaw, roll out and fry. Best winter treat!
  • Jen_nifer: I feel very much the same about my SUP. Floating with snacks is fantastic! When I go on water with some current, I make sure that I paddle into the cu
  • sam: Great article. This is very insightful. Thanks for sharing

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My name is Andrea and I live in Ottawa with my husband Mark and our dog Sunny who is kind of a big deal on Instagram. During the day I work as a freelance writer. I am a longtime Ottawa blogger and I've occupied this little corner of the WWW since 1999. The Fishbowl is my whiteboard, water cooler, and journal, all rolled into one. I'm passionate about healthy living, arts and culture, travel, great gear, good food, and sharing the best of Ottawa. I also love vegetables, photography, gadgets, and great design.

If you're so inclined, you can read more about me here.

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