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18 Feb, 2008

Family day, or no family day?

By andrea tomkins in Misc. life

Raise your hands if you live in the province of Ontario and the whole family is actually together today.

Like many, Mark is at work today. I’m at home.

I was talking to a mom in the schoolyard about it last week. She made a very important point:

“And the liquor stores aren’t even open!”

I’m no big fan of Dalton, and I knew, as soon as I heard talk of “Family Day,” that it was one of those GIFTS that politicians like to think they are giving us. Clearly it wasn’t thought out. And clearly he didn’t realize what a huge backlash it was going to create.

Thankfully, it’s sunny outside. And the snow is more melty than dry. Perfect for building a snow fort, don’t you think?

17 Feb, 2008

Productivity issues for the WAHM

By andrea tomkins in Misc. life

As some of you know, I work at home as a web content gal and writer.

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The photo above was taken at a shoot I went to on Saturday morning. See, that’s my script they’re reading!

I am the happiest clam in the sea. I love what I do, in fact, once, twice, thrice weekly I am being told what kind of a lucky sonofafish I am to have these kinds of gig. BUT BUT BUT, it can definitely be a struggle sometimes. (Do any Fishbowl readers work from home? If so, you know where I’m coming from, right?)

Check out Zen Habit’s tips for staying productive while working from home. I can tell ya, there’s some good stuff in there.

This is what works for me:

1) Having a routine and sticking to it.
I get up with the family, help with breakfast, make lunches, eat my own healthy breakfast and send everyone off to work/school. Then I hit the gym. Gym time is me time. Even when I’m feeling tired, I know that if I spend at least 10 minutes on the recumbant bike reading a trashy magazine it’s better than (a) sitting at home doing nothing, or (b) spending that extra 90 minutes hunched over my computer.

My weak point: checking email before I leave. I am going to make a concerted effort not to check my email before I go to the gym. There’ve been times when I checked, then left the house, only to worry about something the whole time I’m gone.

2) Not watching TV during the day. There’s nothing good on anyway.

3) Getting dressed first thing. It’s easy to spend the day in pj’s or gym clothes, but this does nothing for productivity.

4) Knowing my Good Time. My best work time is between 10 and 2:00 p.m. I try to schedule around it.

5) Eating light, well-balanced lunches, and going easy on the sugar. If I don’t do this I crave a nap, and if I nap I won’t be able to fall asleep at a reasonable time. Which brings me to:

6) Going to bed at a decent hour. Our kids have a bedtime, so I should too. When I’m well rested I feel better and have more energy. More energy = more writing!

7) Limiting caffeine. I drink a big coffee in the morning, a cup of tea after lunch. Too much caffeine and I get jittery. I know my limit!

8) Scheduling house work. Working at home means I have had to find some kind of work/life balance. It’s tough. Housework has to be scheduled in with everything else, otherwise it doesn’t get done.

I haven’t been that great about it lately, but I do have an informal chore list set up for myself every day of the week. Laundry on Mondays etc. This is in addition to daily tidying of the busy areas of the house (kitchen, front hall, dining room).

I’ve also had a lot of sucess with my handy dandy notebook. As a writer, I like having the freedom to jot something down when the inspiration hits. AND, as a mom, this allows me to hang out with the kids and still be “working.” I can carry my notebook everywhere I go.

What I’m not so great about:

– checking email too frequently. I changed my settings so that my email program checks the server for incoming mail every 15 minutes. That helps. A bit.

– watching TV in the evenings. I’m so tired in the evenings that I all want to do is plant myself on the couch. I don’t even want to think of all the things I could be doing with that extra hour or two … which, if I factor in a movie or two, adds up to 10-14 hours EACH WEEK. Yikes.

What works for you? What doesn’t work? Inquiring mothers (okay, maybe just me!) want to know.

17 Feb, 2008

One thanks and an oops

By andrea tomkins in Memes/blog awards etc

So…. the Most Esteemed Miss Vicky nominated me for an F-word award for best family blog (thanks!) and I promptly forgot to tell you all about it (oops.)

BTW, that’s “F” as in Feminist.

The first round of voting, um, over, so you can’t exactly VOTE.

What can I say? I’m all asnooze over here.

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The Obligatory Blurb

My name is Andrea and I live in Ottawa with my husband Mark and our dog Sunny who is kind of a big deal on Instagram. During the day I work as a freelance writer. I am a longtime Ottawa blogger and I've occupied this little corner of the WWW since 1999. The Fishbowl is my whiteboard, water cooler, and journal, all rolled into one. I'm passionate about healthy living, arts and culture, travel, great gear, good food, and sharing the best of Ottawa. I also love vegetables, photography, gadgets, and great design.

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