a peek inside the fishbowl

I made my envelopes last weekend and pulled together our list of activities just last night. I’ve decided to wade into this Christmas thing nice and slow.

Today’s envelope revealed:

Enjoy a cup of marshmallows with a bit of hot chocolate

We’ll be indulging after school today. I’ll upload a pic to this post as soon as I snap one.

Advent day one

Some backstory: Last summer we spent a few days with friends at their summer camp, the girls participated in camp activities and we all ate in the dining hall with a couple hundred campers and camp staff.

The mornings were hilarious – full of bedraggled kids and bowls of cereal and toast and jugs of juice being passed around. We drank coffee, and the kids had the option of drinking hot chocolate.

Mark and I watched in awe as kids stuffed their mugs full of mini marshmallows and then ladled hot chocolate over them, slurping the sugary mallow muck that resulted.

So that’s where today’s advent comes from. :)

Good news: I’ve been chatting with someone from the media about this project. She was really interested in the bloggy participation angle of this story (which I think is very cool too). The word is out! Woo hoo!

Participants (if you’re reading this), can you use the comments below to tell us a little about why you decided to do the family advent this year? Thank you!


This post is part of the 25 days of Christmas challenge. It’s never too late to play along!  You can check out the Flickr group too.

30 Nov, 2009

First time in Ottawa

By andrea tomkins in Ottawa

I had a family photoshoot on Saturday morning. The mom asked me if I was from Ottawa.

“I’m from the Toronto-area,” I said, because this is how I explain the sprawl I come from named Brampton/Bramalea. “I came to Ottawa for school and never left because Ottawa totally rocks.”

The lady laughed and told me she was born here.

“An Ottawa native!” I exclaimed. It’s pretty rare to meet someone who was born and raised here. Almost everyone I meet has come to Ottawa for work or school and just stayed.

She then said something about how people who are born here don’t often think that it “rocks.”

I didn’t think that it rocked either, at least, not when I was first introduced to Ottawa.

When I was in my last year of highschool I had to decide where I was going to apply for my post-secondary education. For some reason we were only allowed to choose three places. And so I applied to the English program at the University of Toronto, the Journalism program at Ryerson (that is a story in itself) and to the School of Journalism and Communication at Carleton University here in Ottawa. This was listed as my number one choice.

I was accepted at all three programs (with scholarships! That’s how smart I was!) but my heart was set on Ottawa. The journalism program was very well known and this is where I wanted to be.

As much as I love life in Ottawa I will freely admit that November is not exactly peak season for beauteous sightseeing. Spring has the tulips, winter has the Rideau Canal, summer and early fall have shades of Gatineau park, but there’s an inbetween time (namely late fall and early spring) that is grey and cloudy and stark. Unless your favourite colour is “monochrome” or you can overlook the lack of colour and sunshine, Ottawa isn’t a very cheerful place to be in November. And that, my friends, is when I decided to visit Ottawa for the very first time. My boyfriend (that’s a whole other post too) and I decided to drive up to Ottawa and check out the scene.

If you’ve lived in Ottawa you might remember a campsite right near the water purification plant near Lebreton Flats? YES. You could pitch a tent a stone’s throw from Parliament Hill! Boyfriend and I parked his Honda Civic hatchback in the campsite parking lot, tilted our seats back and slept (yes, we really slept). We awoke to angry knocking on the windshield. Apparently you can’t just park your car in the parking lot of a municipal campsite and sleep in it like that!

I’m not sure how that particular part of the story ended (where did we go after we were told to leave?), but I do know that we spent some time driving around aimlessly (we really had no clue) and didn’t see anything worth seeing other than Parliament Hill, which is pretty and all but for a teenager who’s moving out of the house for the first time it didn’t seem to be enough of a draw.

Now that I’m writing it all down I’m not sure if I’m combining the memories of two trips or just one, but do I remember the winds, those HOWLING WINDS, threatening to sweep me off my feet somewhere outside the  library at Carleton. The campus was deserted (it was a weekend) and we had no idea where the action was. Everything looked so dreary. I questioned why I wanted to come here to this grey grey place.

The kind of weather we’re having now reminds me of the time of The Howling Winds. I did eventually decide that I loved Ottawa and wanted to make it my home. And now I am open to Ottawa’s beauty, no matter the season.

27 Nov, 2009

Another photoshoot at the beach

By andrea tomkins in Photography

I know I start every one of these posts talking about how adorable these families are. It is an absolute truth. THEY ARE ALL ADORABLE.

Is it the love that I’m seeing? The joy? I don’t know what it is, I just know that I see these photos and I want to give these people a great big hug.

Here are a few of my favourite pics from this photoshoot:

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The Obligatory Blurb

My name is Andrea and I live in Ottawa with my husband Mark and our dog Sunny who is kind of a big deal on Instagram. During the day I work as a freelance writer. I am a longtime Ottawa blogger and I've occupied this little corner of the WWW since 1999. The Fishbowl is my whiteboard, water cooler, and journal, all rolled into one. I'm passionate about healthy living, arts and culture, travel, great gear, good food, and sharing the best of Ottawa. I also love vegetables, photography, gadgets, and great design.

If you're so inclined, you can read more about me here.

I've deactivated the commenting function as well as my contact form so if you want to get in touch, please drop me a line at quietfish@gmail.com. Thank you!

 


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