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27 Jul, 2010

Guess who got new glasses?

By andrea tomkins in Oh! Things!

Sarah did.

Here she is when she first got her glasses in March 2008:

First glasses

I remember when she first got them. I was weepy about her pretty face being covered by glasses (I am so over that) and also freaked out that she hadn’t been seeing properly this whole time.  (Lesson learned: get your kids eyes checked! In Ontario it’s free until they’re 18.) 

Anyway, here she is now:

someone got new glasses

At first she was going to get the same kind of frames, but she kept coming back to this pair. It’s hard to tell by the photo, but the frames are copper-coloured, with shiny aquamarine legs (or are they called arms?).

By the way, the service and selection at Bonoptics on Carling Avenue (near Westgate) is fabulous. They specialize in children’s eyewear. I recommend them to anyone looking for kid-sized glasses.

I am not entirely sure if the lady helping us was convinced that these were the right pair for Sarah. She kept saying things like: “Those glasses sure are DIFFERENT.” And I agree, they are a big departure, but I think they suit her perfectly! All kidding aside, the lady helping us was actually very helpful and patient. She even called around to see if some frames came in different colours, and didn’t seem to mind that it took us 20 minutes to pick out a new glasses case. :)

We are all happy with Sarah’s choice of eyewear, especially Sarah.

I was at the grocery store last night, browsing the bakery section, looking for a dessert that would satisfy a nagging craving. I picked up a frozen pie, skimmed the nutrition panel and the ingredients, and put it back. The pie was made up of a whole list of things that I didn’t recognize, including one thing I did recognize: palm kernel oil. As I was putting it back I realized there was a woman about my age poised to grab the same box.

“What is it,” she asked. “Something bad?”
“Palm kernel oil,” I said.
“Why, is that bad?” There was concern in her eyes. Or was it disgust?
“Apparently it’s one of the worst oils out there.”

She put it back.

I don’t think I was far off in my dislike of palm kernel oil. Here’s what Dr. Weil writes about it:

… unlike palm oil, palm kernel oil can’t be obtained organically. Instead, the oil must be extracted from the pit with a gasoline-like hydrocarbon solvent. In short, palm kernel oil is a cheap, unhealthy fat, and I recommend avoiding food products containing it.

And so I do. Apparently it is high in saturated fat, which, according to the American Heart Association, is the main dietary cause of high blood cholesterol. The Ontario Heart and Stroke Foundation also recommends reducing saturated fat in our diets.

This past week’s KMDM activity was to:

Pick out a new recipe to try this week together. 20% of families eat frozen dinners and another 20% eat pre-cooked meals.

I would like to know more about that 20% who eats frozen dinners. How often do they eat frozen dinners? And why? Is it because they hate to cook, don’t know how crappy most frozen dinners can be, or don’t have time?

I’m probably going to offend some people here, but I’m not sure if I buy the “don’t have time” argument. I think we, as parents, make choices about how and where we spend our time. And I know fatigue plays a huge part of it (I don’t have the energy to make elaborate meals), but it’s not entirely unfair to say that fatigue – for some of us at least – may be partially caused by overloading on processed carbs.

Many people plan and prep their meals once a week, say Sunday mornings. Personally, I wish I could be better at this. More often than not I’m doing menu planning by the seat of my pants. And I work from home!

Is time really an issue, or is it about priorities and the choices we make? We make time to check email and watch YouTube videos and go shoe shopping, so why can’t we find time to make healthy meals for our families? There are so many recipes that don’t require a lot of time and effort. Slow-cookers, roast chickens, and make-ahead dinners make meal prep a little easier too.

Anyway, back to the challenge.

The first goal was to find a recipe. The girls weren’t keen to flip through my cookbooks, so instead we talked about our favourite dinner-related meals. Emma immediately suggested spaghetti – which was a good one – but the idea here is to try a new meal. So we talked about our favourite ingredients.

What came out of this was:

  • ham
  • pineapple
  • bread
  • cheese

Now this was something I could work with!

I had just been looking at Pioneer Woman’s delicious-looking recipe for Grilled Chicken Pineapple Quesadillas. So that’s what we made – but with ham. (Not my preference, but STILL.)

I wish I had photos of our meal to share with you, but frankly, I was too hungry to take the time. Mark grilled the pineapple and the ham on the BBQ. The girls helped grate the cheese and put everything together. Admittedly, this was more about assembling – not so much cooking – but the end result was really good and the girls were very proud that they helped.

Mark and I added jalapeno peppers to ours. Next time we’ll add sour cream and a sprinkle of cilantro just like Pioneer Woman did.

I will say this: they turned out great. Roasted pineapple is divine. The ham was a little dry, but no one noticed. One kid liked them a little bit more than the other, but ate them anyway. Mark and I both agreed that this recipe was a keeper. Don’t you love it when that happens?

Do you have a recipe you like to make with your kids? I’d love to hear about it if you do!

This is next week’s Know More Do More activity:

Have a dance-off in the kitchen after dinner tonight [Woo hoo!] Increased physical fitness and active living opportunities have positive effects on academic performance.

I have no doubt this one is true. I would also add “… and helps them sleep better at night” too!

This post is part of the Know More Do More initiative which was spearheaded by the Champlain Cardiovascular Disease Prevention Network. KMDM is about empowering parents and inspiring them to take charge of their children’s health by taking easy steps to increase activity levels and improve eating habits. I’m one of two champion families who has been asked to take this challenge. You can join too. Check out the official website for more information. If you’re blogging about your participation, please let me know so we can cheer each other on! You can read all of my past weekly challenges here.

25 Jul, 2010

Summer survival

By andrea tomkins in parenting

Some time ago I came up with a handy dandy summer survival motto for my mom-self: One Thing Every Day.

The Things I’m referring to are activities I do with the girls. The idea here is that I do at least ONE THING with the girls every day – big or small – and the rest of the time they’re either on their own or asleep. :)

Small things can include:

Big things can include:

  • Organizing a date with friends (meeting friends for breakfast is one of my favourite things to do)
  • Going to see a movie
  • Going on a roadtrip, or a hike, or both
  • Going to the art gallery, the fair, the museum
  • Checking out the local waterpark (Mont Cascades has totally dropped the price of admission this summer, so do yourself a favour and skip busy Calypso for now.)
  • Hosting a lemonade stand
  • Writing invitations and hosting a teddy bear picnic

… you get the picture. I know I’m using the word “big” pretty loosely here – all things are relative – but in a way it refers to energy expenditure. Some days I just have so little of it to go around. 

Whether or not you tell your kids about your One Thing Every Day plan is up to you. I haven’t. It’s just something I have in the back of my mind. It prevents me from totally vegging out, and/or sitting in front of the computer all day and allowing the three us of to loll around the house, pyjama clad and unwashed all day long. (Although that might be fun too.)

The other day we had a picnic lunch. We didn’t even go very far from the house (in this case it was in the backyard):

Picnic lunch

… and Piper got a little something too:

 Piper's rawhide

Great thing about the picnic idea is that the girls were actually happy to come grocery shopping with me in preparation.

They are hilarious, and so creative. On Friday we had a movie night. To my surprise the girls took it upon themselves to design a movie poster, make tickets and organize a raffle. (!) Mark won a book that’d been lost in the basement.

The beauty of the One Thing Every Day plan is that it:

  1. (a) Gives kids something to look forward to. 
  2. (b) Allows parents to say things like: “Henry, we can’t go to see the monster trucks, we’re having friends over for lunch today instead!” Because sometimes I feel like I can ONLY DO one thing.
  3. (c) It makes me feel like we’re doing something together as a family.
  4. (d) It shakes things up a little bit and makes ordinary things (like meals) a little more fun. 
  5. (e) If I do one thing with the girls I can give myself permission to work, compose overdue emails and occasionally nap in the afternoon. :)

I don’t want to snooze my summer away, it’s just too short, you know what I mean?

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My name is Andrea and I live in Ottawa with my husband Mark and our dog Sunny who is kind of a big deal on Instagram. During the day I work as a freelance writer. I am a longtime Ottawa blogger and I've occupied this little corner of the WWW since 1999. The Fishbowl is my whiteboard, water cooler, and journal, all rolled into one. I'm passionate about healthy living, arts and culture, travel, great gear, good food, and sharing the best of Ottawa. I also love vegetables, photography, gadgets, and great design.

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