a peek inside the fishbowl

I love our home. It’s a wartime home, built in 1942 or ’43. It is cozy and full of personality. It is utterly charming. It has a VERY small footprint in an amazing neighborhood. I am thankful to be living here and I pinch myself every day.

wartime home - ottawa

This house is us.

It’s 1.5 storeys with three bedrooms, one four-piece bathroom upstairs and a two-piece downstairs. I loved this place the moment we saw it.

I remember running my fingers down the thick banister that connects the main floor with the bedrooms. It felt warm against my skin; a single piece of tree that had had a million hands eroding it ever so slowly with every passing touch. Sold!

The realtors, trying to be helpful (and I suppose to give the sale more appeal), suggested that we could slice off our backyard and sell it to someone else to be developed. Mark and I both looked at each other, aghast. Why on earth would we want do that?

Although we’d never consider selling off our backyard, we’ve realized that we can fill a bit of it with some extra house.

Twelve years ago I didn’t mind the tiny closets, the nonexistent front hall, the unfinished basement, and the fact that the living room is completely separated from everything else … resulting in a rather awkward floor plan for a family of four. (I really should sketch it out for you Now uploaded here – it’s weird.)

Having that upper .5 storey means we have heavily sloped ceilings upstairs. Although they add charm and personality and a certain feeling of comfort in the bedrooms, it also means that each one has at least one totally unusable wall (one that can’t be used to lean a bookshelf against or even to hang a framed photo or two) and very small closets.

We consider ourselves lucky to have an upstairs bathroom as part of our .5 storeys (we’ve seen some places that don’t), a garage, a dry basement, and an addition of an office as well as an enclosed back porch.

I think we have about 1200 sq.ft of living space. I have spent 12 years thinking about it and I know that I don’t really even want THAT much more. We’re don’t want a monster home filling every square inch of our lot, but we do want room to breathe. We need smart space.

In our neighbourhood, those little City of Ottawa Committee of Adjustment signs are cropping up faster than weeds after a rainstorm. Many times the appearance of this sign means that the individual or the developer is requesting the city for MORE of something. They want two houses where there should only be one, greater height, greater depth, or greater width for whatever it is that they’re building. There are zoning by laws in place. Why can’t people build within them? Gah. That’s a whole different post.

We have been taking a good hard look at our everyday needs. I’ve read some of Sarah Susanka‘s work and I really like her philosophy about living space, which tends to be open in some areas (like the kitchen/family room) and closed off in others (like bedrooms and work areas). And then there’s the issue of the space we think we are supposed to have. Take the formal dining room, for example. Do we really need a separate room for special occasions? With a table that seats 12? Personally I’d rather put the extra space towards other areas of the house, like a main floor laundry and mud room.

All this is so overwhelming. We’ve been talking about it for years but the time has finally come for a major remodel and serious upgrades. We want to finish the basement and make it into a livable area with storage. We want to expand two storeys out the back and reconfigure the space to include a better-functioning kitchen and a family room, get rid of the garage and tack on a secondary entrance and a mud room. AND THEN I would love to have the backyard beautifully landscaped. *sigh*

Since we’re planning on being up to our armpits in drywall dust and paint chips for god knows how long, I would love to implement some eco-friendly features, like a tankless hot water system and a high-efficiency furnace. Sadly, Mark will not entertain the idea of solar panels, a green roof, or geothermal heating, and he won’t let me get rid of the driveway, but projects like the Now House (have you heard of it?) make me realize how much is possible in terms of green design.

So now we’re looking for someone to help us take on this massive project. And we really don’t know where to begin.

I’m afraid of this taking over my life – that all I’m going to be thinking and talking about for 18 months is plumbing and electrical work – but we are at a crossroads and since we don’t want to move this is the path that we need to be taking right now.  

Ideally I’d like for someone to ring my doorbell and hand me floor plans of someone who was in our exact situation and remodeled their home in the same way we want to, thus saving us the anxiety of the design and planning stages.  (And then POOF the house would be fixed up! Ha.)

Ideally we’d like to hire a design/architect who can help us figure out how to reconfigure our space in the best way possible, AND give me 3D renderings because I am TERRIBLE at visualizing this kind of thing. We need someone who is really creative, and most importantly, has worked on our kind of house before.

Anyone know anyone?

It’s so big it is paralyzing. Other than tearing pictures out of magazines, where do we start?

02 Jun, 2010

The C family

By andrea tomkins in Photography

So, yesterday was a little nutty.

I woke to discover some ants milling around the maple syrup bottle I had meant to rinse out the night before. It was raining. Emma and I had to drive Piper to the vet’s. (See yesterday’s post.) She barfed inside the car. And then pooped outside the car. And I had no choice but to put the poop baggie and barfy paper towels in our very hot trunk. And my hair was frizzing up. And I was frazzling up. And then I had to rush Emma to school. And I had a phone meeting.  Followed by an in-person meeting: four straight hours of talking about social media to some local marketing peeps. And Piper’s sad little face haunted me all day long.

I went to bed last night – on the couch, with a dog in a cone – and thought a LOT about how busy I was yesterday and how important it is to pause and enjoy the scenery. So. Even though there are unanswered emails and Things That Need to be Done Right Now i.e. INVOICING, which I can’t find the motivation to tackle, and laundry, which I am equally excited about. And I need to finish working on my business cards. And what are we having for dinner? Gah. Should I even bother showering?

So this morning I am taking it down a notch. Just for a bit.

I haven’t been writing much about it, but I am still doing the family photography thing. And still enjoying it just as much as when I started. (And wanting a new camera as I am pushing mine to the limit. But that’s a whole different post.)

I met up with the C family at Mooney’s Bay Beach on one bright morning a couple of weeks ago. They were an absolute delight to work with. It was relaxing and fun. And just looking at these photos makes me feel happy and relaxed once again.

The C family

The C family

The C family

The C family

The C family

The C family

The C family

The C family

01 Jun, 2010

Out of commission

By andrea tomkins in dog stuff

Tuesday June 1, 2010

Piper got spayed today and will be wearing The CONE for a whole week.

Poor girl.

Archives


  • Jeanie Maennling: I spent many wonderful days visiting my cousins and Uncle Herb and aunt Eleanor at the Farm in the 1950's. Mycousin Skippy (Sharon) and I got into l
  • alex: For a classic Canadian treat for valentine day , try a BeaverTail (a fried dough pastry) there its yummy
  • Juliet Luiz: I was at this park today and saw the foundation and historical sign which got me curious and let me to your blog post! Great information:) too bad t
  • Rowyn Tape: Hello, I was sitting at Easter dinner with my grandmother and she was telling me this story. She is Herbert Lytles daughter who eventually bought the
  • Bernie: I freeze ball sizes of bread dough for beavertails each winter season.Easy to thaw, roll out and fry. Best winter treat!
  • Jen_nifer: I feel very much the same about my SUP. Floating with snacks is fantastic! When I go on water with some current, I make sure that I paddle into the cu
  • sam: Great article. This is very insightful. Thanks for sharing

The Obligatory Blurb

My name is Andrea and I live in Ottawa with my husband Mark and our dog Sunny who is kind of a big deal on Instagram. During the day I work as a freelance writer. I am a longtime Ottawa blogger and I've occupied this little corner of the WWW since 1999. The Fishbowl is my whiteboard, water cooler, and journal, all rolled into one. I'm passionate about healthy living, arts and culture, travel, great gear, good food, and sharing the best of Ottawa. I also love vegetables, photography, gadgets, and great design.

If you're so inclined, you can read more about me here.

I've deactivated the commenting function as well as my contact form so if you want to get in touch, please drop me a line at quietfish@gmail.com. Thank you!

 


Goodreads