a peek inside the fishbowl

A mini-hike along Sarsaparilla Trail on Sunday turned out to be all about local wildlife.

You know what I love? The girls have learned that if they’re quiet and keep their eyes peeled they might be able to spot something cool. It’s the ultimate Where’s Waldo!

These are some of the things we saw on our walk:

Before I launch into this post I’d like to welcome a new Fishbowl sponsor…  The National Arts Centre! The NAC is the epicentre of Ottawa’s arts and culture scene. Music, dance, theatre – you’ll find it all here.  Did you know that the NAC is the only multidisciplinary, bilingual performing arts centre in North America? And one of the largest in the world? And they are here, in Ottawa! 

It would be easy for an old skool kind of organization like the NAC to rest on their laurels and continue along a comfortable path, but they’re taking innovative approaches to attract new audiences and continually reaching out to the youth of our community and I think that’s pretty cool.

Besides, who says the arts should only belong to the grown ups? Ah, that’s a post for another day. Today I want to talk about the Family Adventures series at the NAC. I was lucky enough to be given four tickets to see a Saturday performance of The Listener.

In The Listener, conductor Boris Brott is busy trying to conduct his orchestra (while teaching the audience about music), but is constantly being interrupted by the antics of a clownish mime or two.

For those who find it hard to sit back and still their minds in order to enjoy the music this premise gives the right amount of distraction which somehow makes it easier to stay focused on the scene. Adding a comedic element to a beautiful score really works.

But I’m skipping ahead. The Family Adventures series includes some fun kid-friendly pre-show activities I can appreciate as a parent, which also add extra value to the whole experience. About half the activities were for kids younger than our own i.e. colouring, playing with percussion instruments (at which Mark exclaimed “Boy am I glad I’m not hung over!”).

There was also a “petting zoo” of stringed instruments. The girls really enjoyed this part:

Suddenly I found myself wondering if I could find a 2-for-1 deal on cellos.

Boris Brott himself circulated and signed autographs. I am sad I missed that photo op! He’s great.

There was music to listen to as well. Groups of young children gave mini-concerts. I think it was inspiring for our own relatively non-musical children to (a) try out the instruments and see how difficult they are to play followed by (b) watching kids their age play some tunes and then (c) hear the orchestra play them REALLY WELL. These kinds of hands-on activities really put it into perspective.

That’s personally why I enjoy the NAC orchestra. To see and listen to people create something so beautiful out of mere wood and air and string and brass is nothing short of magical.

The NAC is a fun place to people watch. I love how dressed-up some of the little kids were. There had been some obvious spit and polish going on beforehand, which was pretty sweet.

We found our seats early. We were in V-row, closer to the back than to the front, but we were able to see just fine.

The NAC has booster seats but they’re in very limited quantity. If you want one you have to be quick about nabbing it.

Before we knew it it was time for the show to begin.

For some people (including one dad we chatted with) it’s their first time at the NAC – ever. I think this is as good an introduction as any. It was a good show for families, with the right balance of education and entertainment. Boris Brott is a very approachable personality and he is real bright spot.

But the question remains: can kids sit still? It’s hard to say. It’s an hour long, a perfect length of time in my view. The girls were easily able stay focused. And they loved it. But not every kid is able to pay attention for that long. Some kids have never learned to wait, or sit still, or how to be quiet. You have to know your kid, and whether if he/she is the type who will (a) enjoy themselves and (b) get something out of a program such as this one. But I like to think that everyone can.

I had a little guy sitting next to me who was five and a half years old. (I asked.) He REALLY enjoyed the show, really and truly. He asked lots of questions before the show started and was fairly quiet during the rest. But I had to laugh. Oh how he giggled and laughed at all the funny parts – his voice ringing out over the heads of everyone on our side of the auditorium. It was lovely to see how much he enjoyed himself.  He was totally mesmerized by the whole production.

We also saw the opposite: two young girls in front of us (about the same age, maybe a shade older) who could not sit still throughout the entire performance. Wow. The mother occasionally shushed them (and plied them with granola bars), whereas the father totally ignored them. In fact, at first I wasn’t able to figure out if he was even part of the the family.

It reminded me of the time we brought Sarah (who was four at the time)  to a similar kind of show at the NAC. Sarah is one of those squirmy kids. She’s been squirmy since THE DAY SHE WAS BORN. She couldn’t keep still. At one point she may or may not have been lying on my feet. I can safely report that the floor of the NAC is not nearly as sticky as that of a movie theatre. But I was mortified. I fed her stale licorice out of the bottom of my purse so she’d have something to keep her occupied. So I totally understand that some kids cannot sit still for anything, no matter how entertaining.

The Family Adventures shows are very family-friendly, and I think fellow audience members are sympathetic if you find you need to remove yourself partway through the performance, but I also think that this is a great teaching opportunity for young families and we need to embrace it as such. Kids need to be shown how to behave. i.e. We need to be quiet. We’re not supposed to chat. We can’t eat or drink. And this is the way It Shall Be.

It’s an education, and kids need to learn how to behave in a movie theatre, in an art gallery, in a nice restaurant. You have to start somewhere, right? 

Anyway, I do recommend the family programming at the NAC. We’ve thoroughly enjoyed everything we’ve seen there, and I think many other people will too.

The next show in the Family Adventure series is called Sports Fever. Snap up a ticket while you still can! (ETA: check out the website for information about the other shows.)

I know a lot of you are NAC members, past and present. If you have anything to add about taking kids to these kind of events I would love to hear it!

I have written about our family junk food “strategy” before. It’s not exactly written in stone, but to summarize:

1. 1) We have minimal junk at home – no chips or pop or candy or chocolate or ice cream or bags of cookies are kept in the cupboards on a permanent basis.
2. 2) I do the grocery shopping. If Mark does it, boxes of crackers and chocolate chip cookies suddenly materialize. ;)
3. 3) If craving occurs, we feed it. The best scenario is to go out to feed it. This works best in the warmer weather (and so it doesn’t always happen), but we do like to walk or bike to the closest ice cream parlour and spend on the good stuff.

Ah, the good bad stuff. Much better than that BAD bad stuff.

I look at it this way: Homemade strawberry ice cream made with whipped cream and sugar? Eat it.

Delicious homemade cookie hot from the oven? Eat it.

Crappy factory-made shrink-wrapped danish from the 7-11 chock full of trans fats and ingredients you can’t pronounce? Don’t eat it.

Here is the thing about the buying quality instead of quantity. Less is more. And excellent ingredients go a long way to stem a craving. And the same goes for chocolate.

I had the pleasure of chatting with Lori Sword recently, owner and Chief Chocolatier of Koko Chocolates, for a recent SavvyMom article (which you can read here).

Lori is a lovely lovely person. Her dedication and patience (do you know how long it takes to make a tray of hand-dripped truffles?) is astounding. She works in a small room in her Parkdale-area condo, patiently filling orders for weddings and baby showers and Christmas gifts.

Lucky me, I got to sample the magic, but more importantly (yes, there is something more important than chocolate) I really enjoyed meeting someone who loves what they do. It is truly infectious.

And I haven’t even mentioned her delicious chocolates.

The good news about koko chocolates is that they taste like chocolate without being sugary sweet. And there’s no waxy filler like the kind you’d find in dollar store chocolates. (If you are buying and enjoying chocolate from the dollar store, well, I’m not sure if there is hope for you.) Bad news about koko chocolates is that you will never go back to your grocery-store variety ever again and you will look down your nose at dollar store chocolate and the people who eat them. :)

If you are a lover of chocolate you will love koko. Here’s the website if you want the deets.